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8 Psychology Hacks To Excel At Public Speaking

8 Psychology Hacks To Excel At Public Speaking.  1. Exude Confidence.  - From the moment you walk through the door to speak, be completely confident and be in command of the situation.  - Say to yourself - "I can do it". Positive self talk boosts your confidence greatly.  - Smile. 2. Relax.  - Take a deep breath, relax. When you are tensed, you would struggle to find the right words to speak.  - Don't get stressed. 3. Train Yourself To Speak Without Preparation.  - Public speaking doesn't have to involve writing a speech.  - Even if there is no time, you should be able to deliver a good speech.  - Practice public speaking more as a conversation than reading something to the audience. 4. Keep It Simple.  - Worrying about every word in every sentence adds stress to your thought process.  - Use simple words, it makes audience to follow your flow easily. 5. Learn And Use A New Word Each Day.  - Accept this as a challenge. This woul...

Life Lessons On Will, Skill, Discipline & Psychological Warfare From Mike Tyson's Mentor - Cus D'Amato

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Life Lessons On Will, Skill, Discipline & Psychological Warfare From Mike Tyson's Mentor - Cus D'Amato Coach to the World's Baddest Man. This is about a great man, an unbeaten boxing coach who in his lifetime nurtured three heavyweight world champions. A man whose triumph is absolute. "A human being is not born the finest, he becomes truly outstanding through persistent heavy work". - Cus D'Amato. ⚔️ The red switch Cus trained his boxers to visualize having a red switch that would switch on the moment you stepped in the ring. He called it the fighting machine. Once on, all that mattered was Victory. FIGHTING MACHINE = PSYCHOLOGY + PHILOSOPHY + SKILLS When the red button was on - The psychology, philosophy and skills would fuse into one uniform system. The fighter is like a loaded gun. The gun might be on the safety lock — The green button. When the red button is switched on, we take off the safety, we pull the trigger. ⚔️ Fear Is Like Fire - Harness it. Fe...

Secrets To Read Anyone Instantly - 14 Psychological Tips

Secrets To Read Anyone Instantly - 14 Psychological Tips Eye Contact Look at person's eyes. Dilated pupils = Interest in your communication. If person can't take eyes off - Romantic Interest If person can't keep eye contact - Nervous or has something to hide. Eyebrows We raise our eyebrows when surprise, worried or fearful. It is hard to have casual conversation normal eyebrows. Look if eyebrows are normal or raised. Smile When smiling, mouth can lie, but eyes can't. Genuine smile reach eyes, crinkling the skin to create crow's feet around them. If there aren't crinkles, that smile is hiding something. Notice What They Say We see the world through our eyes. We like to feel that everyone is like us. The more they rate other people kind and loving - the more they themselves possess these traits. Reverse also true. Paralanguage - Tone, Pitch, Way of Speech If they answer in monotone - uninterested (true for texting too) Pay attention to what words they emphasize. T...